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Best vibrators and sex toys for couples 2025, tested by 130 people

Most vibrators can be lightly immersed in water, but read the instructions to find out if your silicone toy can be cleaned in the dishwasher. When browsing less expensive sex toys, your best bet is to shop at reputable retailers, says Wright. Alternatively, you can watch for sales—some of which we cover here at SELF.

The Volta definitely involves a bit of a learning curve, and it’s probably a better choice for advanced sex-toy users. The Inmi Vibrassage series features three vibrator models, each of which uses three individual tendrils to stimulate the clitoris. The two models we tested, the Fondle and the Caress, each have one stationary vibrating leg and two legs that rotate in circular motions to stimulate the clitoris. We preferred the longer handle of the Fondle vibrators, which made it easier and more ergonomically comfortable to use. Both testers who tried these toys said that using them involved a learning curve, and while one tester enjoyed the novel sensations and achieved orgasm using them, our other tester could not, even after multiple sessions.

These small sex toys are designed to slide onto your fingers or sit right between them, allowing you to use one as an extension of your finger. “Finger vibrators are also great for people to extend the experience of their own touch,” says Balestrieri. “Because they are often easy to hold, or slide over a finger, there is less mobility and agility required to access the pleasure of a vibrator. When used via solo sex, a finger vibrator allows you to stay more closely connected to your own sensations and erotic energy because it organically matches your own movements ,” she explains. Whether you have a treasure trove of sex toys or this is your first one, finding the best one to suit your needs can be a game-changer for your sex life. Most have a single motor and only one or two buttons to control intensity.

Everyone praised the soft, supple material and agreed it was extremely quiet, giving them the confidence to use it with others at home or when travelling. If you love the size and the stimulation provided by beginner bullets, but are in the market for a more sophisticated vibrator, try this lipstick-like option from We-Vibe. Lovehoney received rave reviews when it first brought out the Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator, and it recently revisited the original design to add some bells and whistles – or to be exact, a G-spot egg.

Babeland and Good Vibes are SheKnows sponsors, however, all products in this article were independently selected by our editors. The short answer is yep, using a vibrator should not compromise an IUD should you choose to get one. You can banish fears of enjoying a session with your favorite external vibe only to see your IUD on the floor. You’ll want to choose objects that are smooth, durable, and are comfortable for you to hold or manipulate.

It uses gentle air pulses and suction to stimulate the clitoris and there’s a 4.5-inch handle to target the G-spot, too. It went down a treat with our panel, who praised the gorgeous design and ultra-soft silicone material. Everyone enjoyed playing around with the settings and they agreed it was exceptionally quiet, too.